Pretty P’s Response to Bad Dolly – “Boring, or Just Unbothered?”
It’s interesting how quickly people will label you as “boring” when they can’t understand your peace. Bad Dolly may have thought she was throwing shade when she called me boring, but all she really did was shine a light on her own insecurities. See, what Dolly doesn’t realize is that not everyone needs to be loud to be powerful. Not everyone needs to constantly perform, exaggerate, or stir up drama to feel relevant. Some of us are content, confident, and calm—and that’s a level of security that will always be misunderstood by those who crave attention.
Let’s be clear: I am not boring. I am selective. I am intentional. I move with grace, not noise. I prioritize peace over pettiness, and truth over theatrics. If that doesn’t entertain Dolly, that’s okay. I wasn’t put here to be her source of excitement. I wasn’t built to dance for the crowd or perform for approval. I know who I am, and that in itself is a rare kind of power—one that doesn’t need validation from the loudest voice in the room.
Dolly can be the life of every party if she wants to be, but what’s a party without purpose? What’s hype without substance? Anyone can be “fun” for a moment, but how many people can be real for a lifetime? I don’t chase trends, I don’t beg for clout, and I don’t engage in petty name-calling. I exist in a space of confidence that isn’t loud, but it’s undeniable. I know that in a world full of chaos, calm is revolutionary. And if Dolly can’t see that, it’s not my job to educate her—growth is personal.
I’d rather be the one people call “boring” while I quietly build, heal, and thrive, than be the one who constantly performs and still feels empty when the lights go out. Because when the noise fades and the crowd goes home, who are you really? If being true to myself makes me “boring” in someone else’s eyes, then I’ll wear that label with pride. It’s better than being fake for applause.
So Dolly, if you think I’m boring, that’s perfectly fine. But maybe what you really mean is that I don’t entertain your kind of drama. I don’t subscribe to your chaos. I don’t feel the need to prove anything to you. And that, my dear, is what really bothers you.
Because the truth is, I don’t need to clap back with venom or stoop to your level. My silence is not weakness—it’s power. My peace is not dull—it’s discipline. And while you’re busy talking about me, I’m busy leveling up.
Boring? Nah. I’m just unbothered. And trust me—that’s a vibe you’ll never understand.